Suck it up and deal? A â€śman of Godâ€ť would say to his wife, â€śWoman, this is what weâ€™re going to do, suck it up and deal!!â€ť Interesting. Iâ€™m thankful my man of God husband doesnâ€™t treat me like this. I am pretty sure any Spirit-led husband/â€śman of Godâ€ť wouldnâ€™t treat his wife like this or scream it from the pulpit to other men to treat their wives like this. Even if she does get â€śsidewaysâ€ť or â€śsassyâ€ť, there is not scriptural support for that tone, verbiage or attitude. There are scriptural, Spirit filled ways to guide a â€śsidewaysâ€ť wife â€śback into submission.â€ť This is not one of them.