God's desire for our lives is to be holy. This is why He has called us. We have been declared to be holy, saints. And, the Lord is making us more and more like Christ. We are to flee from sexual immorality and put on self control. We do this not because we can say we are those without sin but because we desire to be like Him.
As our culture continues its moral decline sexual ethics will continue to mark Christians apart from the world. Do we believe God's word? Will we live peculiar lives of holiness? This is God's will for our lives. We are to love Him with all of our hearts, minds, soul, and strength and the passionate lusts of our flesh.