What do you love? What do you prize? What matters most to you?
Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
One good way to find out what matters most to you, is to ask the question, what gets your goat? If I wanted to get you riled up, what should I do? Say something bad about your favorite sports hero or politican? Try to undermine your authority in the home? Tell a joke about homeschool moms?
What are you sensitive about? That will reveal a great deal about you!