"Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking deceit." -Psalm 34:13
"Put away from you a deceitful mouth, and put perverse lips far from you" -Proverbs 4:24
Adopting the truth suppressing, gender-flipping, gender-denying language of our God-hating, sexually deviant culture isn't Christian kindness, Christian love, or taking a neutral position as Christian peacemakers (Rom. 1:18-32). It's cowardly capitulation (Luke 9:23-26; Rev. 21:8). It's hatred toward God (Rom. 1:30). It's hatred toward truth suppressing, perishing sinners who need to hear God's truth and learn the fear of God that they might repent of their sin, confess Christ as Lord, and be saved from God's just judgment in Hell (Ps. 19:7; Prov. 1:7; Rom. 10:17; Gal. 3:24). It's not neutral (Matt. 12:30). It's actively suppressing God's truth and siding with God-haters in their deception, in their sexual perversion, and in their rejection of their God-given gender. Pretending men are women and women are men isn't a modern-day expression of Christian love or compassion...it's modern-day apostasy, hatred toward God, and hatred toward perishing sinners. It doesn't matter what day it is, modern or ancient, God's truth doesn't change and Christians speak God's truth in love.
"We should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head — Christ...Therefore, putting away lying, "Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor," ...Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption." -Ephesians 4:14-15, 25, 29-30