Christopher000 wrote:
the best advice on any given issue often comes from those who have actually been through the tough times and experienced the same,

Dear Christopher
I posted regarding the necessity of continual prayer for your wife-no matter how bad the situation appears to be, no sinner is too hard.

A few days after posting and for your encouragement, I received notification from a dear friend that a couple have recently had the joy of seeing their grandson and his young wife brought to repentance and faith after a number of years of pleading for them before the throne of grace.

Do you think your wife’s eternal soul is worth a number of years of pleading? That your own personal and present heartache would be counted as nothing if she was to be brought, by Sovereign Grace, to repentance and faith...even if you are to yet suffer several more years?

Christopher000 wrote:
She won't be changing

Have a read of: Matthew 17: 14-21. An impossible case with seemingly no remedy?

What did Jesus say was our best action-'prayer'?

As head of the home, pray before meals whether your wife likes it or not. Pray lovingly for her conversion at that time. Pray so she can hear your concern for her eternal soul at bed time and in the morning.

Pray secretly for the Sovereign Lord to deal with her heart in your own private devotions.

Pick up and read for yourself John Bunyan's book: 'Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners' or John Newton 'Out of the Depths', remind yourself that the worst of sinners can become God's trophies of grace.

Pray she will pick up some tract or booklet in your home and that God would begin to stir her heart to ask serious questions through some providence, often a death. Pray knowing that what is impossible for man is God's work of salvation.