The sin that indwells in all men's hearts is disgusting! We can not be snobbish and think that this man is so radically sinful that he should not be in the church. HE IS NOT QUALIFIED FOR ELDER!!! But his place is to repent and sit under the true preaching of the word of God. "Coming out" is nothing more than saying, "I am openly non-repenting from this sin." He should be excommunicated and treated as a gentile. We should seek to share the gospel with him. It is a sad day when the false prophets take the front stage. As those who are truly of Abraham it is important that we share the entirety of God's word, including sin, judgment, hell, and the only way of salvation (Faith in Jesus Christ).