Second of all, I saw some mention about the crusades, the difference is that Jesus never taught to kill people just because they are a Gentile and won't convert to Christianity, Muhammad on the other hand did teach to kill all infidels, that infidels have 7 intestines, that there will be more women in Hell than men.

Jesus came to take the wrath of God for those who would put their faith in Him, Muhammad came to bring wrath to those who don't follow him.

Ignominious, interesting statistics, what are the Lutherans doing? Is there a Lutheran here that wants to explain this?

Your statement, "they would use the force of law to create a just society populated by a moral people." Is foolish, for a society to work there must be laws, I'm not looking to make morally good people by upholding a law that says murder is illegal, I'm trying to protect people because if they break it they get punished, and if we had capital punishment that person wouldn't do it again.

"Law cannot make people or nations good. Only grace can do this." So your philosophy is to live in a nation where there are no laws? Where people can kill, rape, steal, run skyclad, abuse children, have a 35 year old man marry a 7 year old girl against her will? Have you thought of the implications of your philosophy?

In one sense your free to do whatever religion you want (universally speaking) but you better be 100% sure it is the right religion, because there can be serious consequences if you're wrong.

Point being everyone will face God on judgment day to give an accounting for every word, thought, and deed they have ever done, that's going to be a fearful day, and those who don't have the Saviour, namely Jesus the Messiah, will spend eternity in Hell.

Let's stay on topic, as far as the church attendance I would add that it's hard to find out who is gathering with a church, just because a building says, "Frosty Flakes Church" does not make it a church, we must examine the claim according to the scriptures, so if a place calls themselves a church it means nothing, we must look to the Bible to see if it's truly a church or a social club.

I have seen guys propose to women in a church, (I refuse to call them ladies) and I'm thinking, "What were you thinking?" That can be said for dating as well.

Read Proverbs about the difference between a wife and an adulterous woman, very interesting difference, btw, if you know a female pastor, ask her how she is planning to be a husband of one wife. (See 1Timothy 3)

Also from ligonier ministries there is TableTalk magazine, it's mostly on theology topics, has daily devotionals, special offers it's really good.
Don't quote me on this but I think it's $25 for a year subscription, $35 for 2 years and $45 for three years, it's a good investment though.

As a disclaimer, TableTalk is reformed theology, I don't know your theology so I just wanted to through that out there, I recommend going to their website www.ligonierministries.com and check it out, they are a very active ministry, their founder, R.C.Sproul has some sermons on here.

Jeremiah 17:9
The heart is deceitful above all things , and desperately wicked: who can know it?

I read the article from another website, they kept on mentioning that the heart was the confirmation of gender, yet this simply is not valid.
They say also that God knows that "he is a girl" yet how they prove that is not seen.