Matthew 7
6 "Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.---NASB

Umm, what about the woman who when she doesnt cook the food right, gets her skull fractured in 10 different places, and ends up in the intensive care close to death's door. Or, the mother who is so beaten down and intimadated while he the husband turns on her children, horse whips them, locks them in the barn with no food for days..the list goes on. and on, the alcoholic that goes to the bar, drinks out the foodmoney, and buys harlots at the bar drinks all round, while his wife and kids are in rags. .the last one wasnt for a christian. however, there are christians who do the above.
I dont justify all of divorce. Cause there are those who abuse the system and wear dog collars and stand in the pulpit, and you wouldnt have known that is what theyre up to in the homelife.Only when the Lord finally exposes their sin.Anyone call fall by the way. oh well. what am I doin here trying to justify this. There is no set basic formula. Or answer. Every story is different.