Unprofitable Servant wrote: A sister who was saved from a life of alcoholism, due to hardships she is facing, goes to a bar and gets drunk. (something she had victory over before) On the way home she is killed in a car accident, does she end up in hell for her indiscretion? A brother ..... Does he end up in hell for his actions? A brother ...... Is he now destine for hell?
Only the elect avoid hell. Regardless of their efforts to do otherwise. The unelect will go to hell regardless of their efforts to presume otherwise.
As for suicide. The (reprobate) murderer kills another person and is executed. When he is sent to hell in the "afterlife" is he sent there because of the murder act, or because he is unelect, or because he is a sinner. The murder victim was brought up in a muslim society and never knew Christ, he too was sent to hell.
Is the act of suicide the same as the murderer? Or the same as the victim of murder? Or do you provide him with some other mitigation "because" of his act?