Nor do they care. They are times for partying and festivities.

@ Connor, who wrote:
And most of the time it is them (& not the Bible) that determines what is black & white. That’s why people I think so many young Christians who grew up in a house with such ridiculous rules go out & watch or listen to things that are clearly against scripture,

I think that you would not care for what the Scripture says in regards to what is acceptable or pleasing.
Naked, for instance, in Scripture and what is appropriate dress for people would be ill received for those who have many "gray areas".
I think the reason that these things are difficult to figure out for most is because they are blind to what the Bible says.
For those who go out and watch things that are against their upbringing,..they are simply following after their own lusts...it's a sin problem...not a "victim" of strict upbringing issue.
People who love the Lord desire to follow Him in all areas...not a burden but a privilege.

“The like figure where unto even baptism doth also now save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of Jesus Christ:”

Matthew 7:13

“Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:”

Abstinence is not moderation.
It could be given to people who were perishing (as an anesthetic) but that is definitely not an argument for alcohol.
And since a little wine was recommended for Timothy to help his stomach, I doubt that "wine" in that case was alcohol as that would have exasperated his condition. Of course, even if that was the case, it would have been greatly diluted.